Yesterday had to have been one of the most gorgeous days of the year. It was warm, the wind was blowing and the sun was shining. When I first stepped out of the house, I had an overwhelming feeling of gratitude. I was granted another day of living and enjoying this miraculous world.
I know that since I've become a mom, I think I'll always be here to take care of my children, but truth is, I may not. There is a higher power and He is the one that gifts me this thing I call life. I think one of the many things I've learned in the past years is that life is precious and it can be taken from us so quickly. My younger brother was in a terrible motorcycle accident and passed away. A few months later, a neighbor, who was in his mid 40's or 50's was in a motorcycle accident, but he lived. Why him and not my brother? Because, that's the plan that He has for us. My dad was emitted to the hospital for back pain he couldn't get rid of. Turns out he had stage 4, non-hodgkins lyphoma. He died 2 weeks later.
The point is that we never know how long we have here on the earth. So, my advice would be: always kiss your loved ones before you/they leave the house, don't hold a grudge--forgiveness is a mighty weight lifted off your being, embrace your blessings, be grateful for what you do have and not think about what you don't have, focus on the positive and you won't be able to see the bad side of things anymore, give thanks, share your love, tell others how you feel about them, call a friend or a family member, and most of all---give thanks to God for allowing you to do all of that!
Today marks one year for my father passing away. If I could give anyone some advice, I would tell them to make peace with your family. I have no regrets with my father, and I'm grateful for that. I was able to forgive him and the Lord was the only one that could help me forget when I truely asked for help. I belive he also forgave me for anything I had done to him. So, if you have a dad, call them for me or give them a big hug!
I love you, dad!
(my kids' last picture with their only grandpa)
8 comments:
Beautiful post Wendy. I appreciate your sense of peace about the Father's plan. He truly dose love us and knows what we are going through. You are so positive and that is such a huge source of strength and encouragement. You are amazing. Hugs.
Fist off, your kids are sooo cute! Secondly, I can't believe it has been a year since your Dad died. And I still can't believe Buddy is gone. He is greatly missed. I know that he and Zach would still be cuddling together if it were possible! :) I really miss him.
You are so right - life is precious and grudges are a waist of time. Thanks for the post. I really needed to read it!
What a great post. Your perspective is good -- but I get the feeling that you have really earned your wisdom. Thanks for sharing your outlook with us - this is one to go back and re-read.
What a beautiful post and a wonderful perspective, Wendy. I appreciate you sharing it. My perspective is often short-sided (often too much with my kids, too)and it's good for me to remember these things.
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Thanks for sharing such a personal post. It made my day.
Wow, a year really goes fast. I am so glad you are at peace with your Dad's passing, I just can't even imagine how hard it must be to loose a parent. Love ya!
Aww, you have such a good heart Wen! One of many reasons I am thrilled to have you by my side in my wedding! You'll see your dad again one day. That's our joy as believers in Christ. Love you!
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